Thank you, Jesper Juul, that you have made for children so strong!

most of The people who have founded before 1960 a family, have brought up their children as they saw fit. You have tried, your ideas of morality and values to their children, they have banned and allowed, what you thought was wrong or right. In the event of a dispute, you had the power of the word, “because I say so”. It has been little discussed, negotiated, or weighed, it was more likely to be determined. Parents are judicial, Legislative and, unfortunately, often also Executive goods. Children had to obey, and were otherwise somehow with in everyday family life. That something has changed, Jesper contributed Juul significantly.

The Danish family therapist and author of numerous educational books on 25. July 2019 at the age of 71 years died. The was founded in 2004 and parents, consulting project FamilyLab International, and to spread the message on the same evening.

the rights of and appreciation for children

Jesper Juul has made for children. Neither authoritarian nor anti-authoritarian education he thought was the right way, but the confrontation with the child as fully-fledged people. The dialogue was, for him, the key to a good relationship, the communication of the parents with each other he saw as a role model, which is a guideline for children. Respect and equivalency shall apply to each member of the family, no matter how old it is. Jesper Juul calls the “Equity”. Thus, the responsibility remains with the parents, and not, as in the often misunderstood, but also anti-authoritarian education referred to education, to the child is delivered. The radical shift from the corporal punishment-interpreted by parents in the 1970s, often so that they gave their children complete freedom.

Jesper Juul has used to ensure that children are seen. That parents ‘ education also be viewed as the exchange game, in which you can learn very well from their children. Which is not to say that they make their role as Parents, but that you need to ask, carefully and clearly being able to say no. But it is not arbitrary. When children are taken in their needs seriously, if parents explain their behavior or decisions, it creates a relationship instead of a hierarchical education. “From an educational relationship. Authentic parents – competent children” is also the title of Jesper Juuls books.

Under these maxims to be even still once a child. Thank You, Jesper Juul.

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